For Him

I thank you for the times you are quiet... when things don't seem so clear... I will trust in you through it all... I believe you are still here!

Aromatherapy

There are so many therapeutic benefits that come with using essential oils to heal the body. Though somewhat costly, therapeutic grade oils can heal the body emotionally and physically with usually no side effects. Did you know that applying a few drops of peppermint oil to your forehead can immediately get rid of a headache? Or that lavender oil is great for healing burns, among many other things? Rosemary oil can ease body pain and also be added to food for flavor. Tea tree oil is one of my favorites and can be used in a number of ways, from colds to insect bites. There are also blends of essential oils that can provide relaxation, help one to focus, suppress the appetite, or give a quick "pick me up". Essential oils serve multiple purposes and can be applied directly to the body, diffused in the air, and even ingested in very small quantities. There are many products out there that claim to provide aromatherapy. But the truth is, only therapeutic grade oils give the healing affect that many desire. Aromatherapy may seem expensive when compared to other remedies but I personally believe it's a great investment. Since the oil is extremely potent, it can be used very sparingly (only a few drops each treatment) so it lasts for quite some time. AND the healing process happens more speedily. The positives of aromatherapy far outweigh the negatives and is an excellent way to go. Especially if you are into naturally healing the body. So the next time you want to be pampered , treat yourself to an aromatherapy massage and be immediately relaxed or energized.

Dating Dilemma?

I've mentioned before that I've been single for quite some time now. In the last few years, I've only been on a few dates. In fact, I can count on one hand how many. It's not that I don't get asked out. I do...alot! But 99% of the time I decline the offer. Only now have I really started to think about why I almost always say no to going on dates. I think I have some kind of dating phobia or something. Or maybe I'm just reluctant because I'm a single mother who may be overly cautious. Because of my children I have to raise my standards even higher, although some may do the opposite. I can't just bring any Tom, Dick, or Harry around my kids. I have a rule of not bringing any unrelated males around my children anyway, even if they're just my friends. Still, I don't want to even entertain the thought of going on a date with someone that doesn't meet my standards to begin with. Yes...they are high and I am picky. But it's a must! If I'm not immensely intrigued before the actual date, the date won't ever happen. I guess the bottom line is...I just haven't been much intrigued.

Goodbye Summer!

My summer vacation is officially over! The gang's all here back in effect. All kids are accounted for and again under one roof. Their school year is on the verge of beginning which means it's back to the drawing board for me. It's a little awkward right now while I'm getting back into the swing of things. It's hard to believe that I manage a household with three kids all by myself. So far, so good! There's been no bickering or fighting, only hugs and kindness. I keep asking myself how long will this last but I guess I should just enjoy it while it does. My summer was most excellent and I can't find anything major to complain about. Although it's hard to say goodbye, I'm looking forward to the events that will take place in the very near future (e.g. football, graduation, my golden birthday vacation, and most importantly, preparations to move out of TN) I have to mention that I'm officially a soccer mom now since both my girls will be playing this fall. It should be very interesting. My workload will indeed increase with football practices and games for Zailes and soccer for them. So not only should I be kissing summer goodbye, but my social life as well...at least for a while.